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Ethics Box - Exploring Personality and Character for sake of self-improvement

 
Tapsearch Com Editor and Artist Ray Tapajna with EthicsBox.com - studies Personality and Character for the sake of self-improvement. His mission is to probe ways for a new "Solidarity" for self, others and society under the guiding thought that each of us want to feel all together in one place at one time. It is also obvious that workers have no voice in the process of Globalization and Free Trade and hopefully the EthicsBox will prompt a change. See a posts about the "unnetted" at Bizarre Politics com and The Rationale com. Later we will get into the power of the spoken word and how all of us can improve ourselves in this discipline too. It is obvious workers have no voice in the process of Globalization and Free Trade.

Can Will Power be trained (LINK)

June 11th 2008 02:59
Continuing our discussion about improving personality and character, we explore the concept of Will Power and if it can be trained.

There is a notion that some people are just born with a strong will and others with a weak will. On the other hand, many consider weakness of will a matter of choice and they will scold others for this weakness. Someone who breaks the law will plead a weak will in self justificaton. The overbearing types will plead a strong will.

One school of thought says the will is a muscle, which by constant exercise can grow stronger. For example, you can sit quietly for ten consecutive minutes and practiced being in a contended state of mind. According to the "muscle" theory this is supposed to make the will stronger. Others wonder about the very idea of "strength" being applied to the will itself.

Those who have enter the world of contemplation, know it can be a very difficult thing to control the will in a quiet wait.

We also have example of very brave men who are afraid to go to the dentist and soldiers who can discipline themselves for heroic action but can't resist the girls or drink on a furlough. A person can train his will to run a complete marathon but then fails to control an appetite for food.

Apparently, the will is as strong as the motives are. We eventually do what personal experiences tell us what we like in terms of priorities in life. Once we grant the will the power of our motivations, we can open up many ways to improve our personality and character. No one acts in a difficult situation without a reason to do it. We find the "muscle" of the will in our motivations. A strong will is one that has sufficient reason for doing what is right. So in the end we return to the intellect which provides us with motivations. The intellect has to be trained to be on alert- the motivation for the best choice in any matter must be present to the mind when needed. It is important to cultivate intellectual habits of keeping motivations actively in the mind and ready when needed. The habit of acting on motives will provide the strength the will needs to make the choices related to the ideal life. The Christian seeks out Christian ideals for inspired motives. The non-Christian needs to find their route to this inspiration too in their search for the life ideal.


Source includes notes from Father McQuade SJ JCU course
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What can your will do for you (LINK)

May 28th 2008 16:42
In exploring personality and character in hope of improving it, we can study what our will can do for us. What can we reasonably expect from our will. One can credit the will with too much power or too little. If we become discouraged with our will to change things, we may have credited the will with too much power. However, if we give the will too little credit , we will never prompt self-improvement.

The will can be your angels of hope
Find in your will your angels of hope


The will is free to choose right or wrong. When the stage is set for choosing something, it is the will that gives the final signal. It is one thing to call the will free and quite another to say the will is all powerful. Many try to will their way to fortune without any success. A person can will to stop drinking but it will not stop the person from liking a drink. In this we see the will having control over its own desires. It can stop, perhaps, the desire for food by substituting a gum but still we must have a good idea of its place relative to all our other faculties.

One good way to do this, is to imagine the will as the rider and the body as the horse. The rider and the horse are two different things. If we think of the horse as a gentle obedient creature, we run the risk of exaggerating the power of the will. If we think of the horse as a unmanageable beast, we run the risk of underestimating the power of the will. Certainly, anyone who has tried to play par golf will agree the faculties of a person do not obey the will. One cannot order the hand to perform high precision skill just by deciding to do so.
The will can order the hand, but if the hand is not trained, then the result will be just a sorry attempt. The will can choose the hand to move in certain ways and train it but this tells the will it needs patience and understanding to develop the proper stroke.

The understanding of character is based upon a correct view of the will. Character is built and "trained" upon the pattern of one's choices and the records of acts of the will over a period of time. So, if the will is to build character efficiently, it must not only train itself to will the good, but it must also train the other faculties humans have to obey.

(Next : How well can the will disitinguish the bad from the good? Do bad choices in little matters affect choices in big matters and vice versa? Are we willing to pay the price for bad choices and take long detours away from the life ideal?

Based on notes by Father McQuade and Ray Tapajna - Next installment will explore further training of the will

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A High Way and a Low (LINK)

May 27th 2008 22:40
It is the will which determines all the real choices in life. The intellect identifies the choices and then the will takes over. One who forms the habit of choosing well and according to moral law is developing a good character and vice versa. It is the will, ultimately, that determines character, and therefore the will should demand considerable attention in any pursuit related to personality and character.



This is brought out beautifully in a little poem by John Oxenham entitled:




" A High Way and a Low "

To every man there openeth
A way and ways and a way
And the High soul climbs the high way
And the low soul gropes the low.
And in between on the misty flats
The rest drift to and fro
But to every man there openeth
A high way and a low
And every man decideth
The way his soul shall go.

The intellect is a human act that tells us what is what. The intellect may be considered higher in dignity in that the act of knowing is greater than the act of desiring. However, the will what chooses the way to go. It is greater in power and influence, since to a large extent the intellect is piloted in its activity by the will.

The intellect is the faculty by which we know things are. The will is the faculty by which we desire what is good and reject what is bad. However, the will can even choose the degrees one develops their intellect. The will has the power to order the intellect to investigate. It cannot make the intellect see as true what is actually false or vice versa. The intellect searching for truth, will necessarily see things as they are no matter what the will seeks. Harmony only follows when the will abides to the intellect search for true reality.

The priority rests in training the will to choose what the intellect holds as the truth.
I recently told a college student to act in the now and choose things as if in the future according to thinking what one will wish they would have done in the past that you did not do and the things one wishes they did not do in the pass. It is a training yourself in a back to future mode. Choices in little matters cultivate what you do in the bigger ones. And no matter what you think, the intellect will demand the truth and the right way.

Avoid the detours in life

Think and choose what really sets you free so you do not take a detour to places you wish you never journeyed to - search for harmony in your personality and character using the proper harmony of your intellect and will.

Reference: based on notes by Father McQuade

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Father Jonathan explores suffering (LINK)

April 30th 2008 23:48
"How could anyone every tell you that you are less than beautiful " ( Title to a song, that all should hear. )

Lyrics of the song


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Happiness is not automatic (LINK)

April 20th 2008 23:26
Human nature calls us to happiness. Happiness is defined as a state of general well being, and it is obvious this state of well being must assume a balanced personality and well ordered character. Education has to include a development of both the body and the soul. Something seriously is missing if the soul is ignored. The lower appetites must be balanced with the soul. A certain amount of sense satisfaction is necessary for well being , but if one forgets the dual nature of man and woman to the extent of neglecting the higher intellectual power that governs choices, true happiness will never be reached.

The true, the good, the beautiful, for example are the three fundamental objects of the higher intellectual appetite nature of mankind. The natural cursiosity of man is a hunger for truth and it will be restless until truth is obtained. The will wants to choose good and the it will be restless until a certain amount of good is obtained. A certain amount of order, harmony and beauty must enlighted every happy life


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What is this thing called love (LINK)

April 15th 2008 00:35
It is obvious, human beings have all the basic capacities of lower forms of life and there are two activities that distinquishes them from other life forms. These two activities are intelligence and volition.

We find first of all that man can form abstract ideas, that he can know immaterial things, such as honor, beauty, goodness and the like; he can recognize relations between things; he can make judgements on the affairs of life; he can reason from the unknown; he can become arware of and study his own activity; he has a special kind of knowlege that is beyond the mere sense of knowlege of animals


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Pursuing the Life Ideal (LINK)

April 9th 2008 17:50
In any formation of personality and character, we need to identify cause and effect about who we are and who we want to be. Our biological background does play a big part and science is always researching this part. We do see traits in ourselves and others that suggest that we do inherits certain traits but science is still studying this part too . We do know environment plays a big role too but we know that this part can be altered even though the circumstances seem to say it is impossible.

In the global economic arena today, we find we need to quickly decide what ethical road we want to take. Raw Capitalism calls for a gladiator type existence. We need to ask if we want to surrender to this condition or take the higher ground no matter what. Do we do it to others before they do it to us or do we do to others as we would want them to do to us? This is the question of our times. To be or not to be rests on our response


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Imagination tune up (LINK)

March 24th 2008 23:46
Here's another exercise for you. View the image and let the imagination take over. Take in the words and imagine growing better and better in everyway.
Imagination Tune Up:

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Tap the power of imagination (LINK)

March 21st 2008 22:41
This follows our last post about a "friendly imagination".

The imagination is a powerful gift. It is a creative tool you can use in many ways for yourself and others. Children have a great insight into this power and use it in play and story telling. As adults we tend to neglect it. We could use it in a "friendly imagination" way just observing others in those quiet waiting times in dentist or doctor's office or in our commuting back and forth from work on the transit system. You can use it prior to a major sales call or meeting to just relax into the possible sequence of events. The imagination can be supplied with plenty of material and background triggers. The imagination is primarily reproductive and therefore it must have something to reproduce. A person developing a "friendly imagination" must have an awareness of what affects other people and also police what affects oneself. Being aware of the triggers, makes it easier to add a positive spin to most anything. The habit of attention, observation, concentration must be cultivated so that the imagination can draw , either to reproduce or to recreate


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A friendly imagination (LINK)

March 13th 2008 23:18
Imagine you and me and what we can do together for the common good
In exploring personality and character, the imagination plays a very important part. Of all the four internal senses, imagination seems to have most to do with personality. Imagination is the faculty that gives us life and color, variety and resource not only in our mental life but in the operation of divine influences. Even our abstract thoughts depend on our imagination. Low intelligence is often the basis of a dull imagination. The good thing about imagination, is that you can stimulate and grow it. In fact it is sometime said that the large part of the science of mental hygiene is connected with the management of the imagination.

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